{"id":50,"date":"2026-10-06T00:29:17","date_gmt":"2026-10-05T23:29:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ruthreads.store\/?page_id=50"},"modified":"2026-10-06T00:30:41","modified_gmt":"2026-10-05T23:30:41","slug":"dear-teenage-girl-thank-you","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/ruthreads.store\/?page_id=50","title":{"rendered":"Dear Teenage Girl Thank you"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"50\" class=\"elementor elementor-50\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-895f0ae e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"895f0ae\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2f6cb5e elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"2f6cb5e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<!DOCTYPE html>\r\n<html lang=\"en\">\r\n<head>\r\n<meta charset=\"utf-8\">\r\n<meta name=\"viewport\" content=\"width=device-width, initial-scale=1, viewport-fit=cover\">\r\n<title>Thank you | Dear Teenage Girl<\/title>\r\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"noindex\">\r\n<style>\r\n:root{--bg:#fbf5ef;--card:#fff;--ink:#2b2226;--mute:#6d5f66;--acc:#7a2e4d;--acc2:#f3e3ea;--line:#e8d9d0;--btn:#7a2e4d;--btnt:#fff;\r\nbox-sizing:border-box;padding-top:env(safe-area-inset-top,0px);padding-bottom:env(safe-area-inset-bottom,0px)}\r\n@media (prefers-color-scheme:dark){:root:not([data-theme=\"light\"]){--bg:#1c1618;--card:#271f22;--ink:#f3ebe6;--mute:#b9a9b0;--acc:#e7a1bd;--acc2:#3a2530;--line:#3b2e33;--btn:#e7a1bd;--btnt:#2b1420}}\r\n:root[data-theme=\"dark\"]{--bg:#1c1618;--card:#271f22;--ink:#f3ebe6;--mute:#b9a9b0;--acc:#e7a1bd;--acc2:#3a2530;--line:#3b2e33;--btn:#e7a1bd;--btnt:#2b1420}\r\nhtml{scroll-padding-top:env(safe-area-inset-top,0px);scroll-behavior:smooth}\r\n*{box-sizing:border-box}\r\nbody{margin:0;background:var(--bg);color:var(--ink);font:18px\/1.65 system-ui,-apple-system,\"Segoe UI\",Roboto,sans-serif}\r\nh1,h2,h3{font-family:Georgia,\"Times New Roman\",serif;line-height:1.2;margin:0}\r\n.wrap{max-width:680px;margin:0 auto;padding:0 20px}\r\nsection{padding:44px 0;border-top:1px solid var(--line)}\r\nh2{font-size:clamp(24px,5vw,32px);color:var(--acc);margin-bottom:16px}\r\nh3{font-size:20px;margin:0 0 4px}\r\np{margin:0 0 16px}\r\n.mute{color:var(--mute)}\r\n.hero{padding:48px 0 40px;text-align:center}\r\n.tick{width:64px;height:64px;border-radius:50%;background:var(--acc);color:var(--btnt);display:grid;place-items:center;font-size:32px;margin:0 auto 18px}\r\n.hero h1{font-size:clamp(36px,9vw,54px);color:var(--acc)}\r\n.lead{font-size:20px;margin-top:18px}\r\n.btn{display:block;text-align:center;background:var(--btn);color:var(--btnt);font-weight:700;text-decoration:none;padding:16px 20px;border-radius:14px;font-size:18px}\r\n.btn:hover{filter:brightness(1.08)}\r\n.btn.alt{background:transparent;color:var(--acc);border:2px solid var(--acc)}\r\n.btn.off{opacity:.55;pointer-events:none}\r\n.dl{display:grid;gap:14px}\r\n.card{background:var(--card);border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:16px;padding:20px}\r\n.tag{display:inline-block;background:var(--acc2);color:var(--acc);font-weight:700;border-radius:99px;padding:2px 12px;font-size:14px;margin-bottom:8px}\r\n.card .btn{margin-top:14px}\r\n.step{display:flex;gap:16px;margin-bottom:18px}\r\n.num{flex:none;width:38px;height:38px;border-radius:50%;background:var(--acc);color:var(--btnt);display:grid;place-items:center;font-weight:700}\r\n.note{background:var(--acc2);border-radius:14px;padding:16px 18px;font-size:16px}\r\n.skip{display:block;text-align:center;margin-top:14px;font-size:15px;color:var(--mute)}\r\n.big{font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:clamp(22px,4.5vw,28px);color:var(--acc);line-height:1.35;text-align:center}\r\nfooter{padding:28px 0 48px;text-align:center;font-size:14px;color:var(--mute);border-top:1px solid var(--line)}\r\n[hidden]{display:none!important}\r\n<\/style>\r\n<\/head>\r\n<body>\r\n\r\n<header class=\"hero\"><div class=\"wrap\">\r\n  <div class=\"tick\" aria-hidden=\"true\">\u2713<\/div>\r\n  <h1>Welcome, Sister.<\/h1>\r\n  <p class=\"lead\">Your payment went through, and your guide is ready below.<\/p>\r\n  <p class=\"mute\">You just did something many mothers keep putting off: you decided not to wait for the \u201cright time.\u201d You chose to speak to your daughter before life does it for you. <b>I am proud of you.<\/b><\/p>\r\n  <p class=\"mute\">Our grandmothers carried a lot of wisdom, and many of them wished someone had given them the words too. Now you have them.<\/p>\r\n<\/div><\/header>\r\n\r\n<section id=\"downloads\"><div class=\"wrap\">\r\n  <h2>Your downloads<\/h2>\r\n  <p><b>Save these to your phone now<\/b>, so you can open them in the car, the kitchen or at bedtime. Check your email too, where you\u2019ll find a backup copy.<\/p>\r\n  <div class=\"dl\">\r\n    <div class=\"card\"><span class=\"tag\">Main guide<\/span><h3>Dear Teenage Girl<\/h3><p class=\"mute\" style=\"margin:0\">22 honest conversations, with word-for-word scripts.<\/p><a class=\"btn\" data-dl=\"main\" href=\"#\">Download the guide<\/a><\/div>\r\n    <div class=\"card\"><span class=\"tag\">Free bonus 1<\/span><h3>30 Conversation Starters for the Car, the Kitchen and Bedtime<\/h3><p class=\"mute\" style=\"margin:0\">Easy questions that get a teenage girl talking without a fight.<\/p><a class=\"btn alt\" data-dl=\"bonus1\" href=\"#\">Download Bonus 1<\/a><\/div>\r\n    <div class=\"card\"><span class=\"tag\">Free bonus 2<\/span><h3>When She Says \u201cMum, I Need to Tell You Something\u201d<\/h3><p class=\"mute\" style=\"margin:0\">The first 30 seconds: what to say, what to avoid and how to keep her talking.<\/p><a class=\"btn alt\" data-dl=\"bonus2\" href=\"#\">Download Bonus 2<\/a><\/div>\r\n  <\/div>\r\n  <p class=\"mute\" style=\"margin-top:16px;font-size:15px\">Can\u2019t find your email? Check your spam or promotions folder<span id=\"contactBit\"><\/span>.<\/p>\r\n<\/div><\/section>\r\n\r\n<section id=\"first\"><div class=\"wrap\">\r\n  <h2>Your first step: tonight<\/h2>\r\n  <p><b>Results start when you take the first step, and it takes about ten minutes.<\/b><\/p>\r\n  <div class=\"step\"><div class=\"num\">1<\/div><div><b>Open Bonus 2 and read \u201cThe Calm-Response Method.\u201d<\/b> Five moves for the first 30 seconds after she says, \u201cI need to tell you something.\u201d Read it once, so you\u2019re ready.<\/div><\/div>\r\n  <div class=\"step\"><div class=\"num\">2<\/div><div><b>Open Bonus 1 and choose one question.<\/b> Start with a car one, like \u201cWho made you laugh today?\u201d Ask it on the next drive. Then listen, without fixing.<\/div><\/div>\r\n  <div class=\"step\"><div class=\"num\">3<\/div><div><b>In the main guide, read \u201cYour Self-Respect\u201d tonight,<\/b> and \u201cWhen She Doesn\u2019t Know What to Do\u201d tomorrow. 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But if you\u2019d like more support, I have something for you.<\/p>\r\n  <div class=\"card\">\r\n    <h3 id=\"upName\"><\/h3>\r\n    <p id=\"upLine\" style=\"margin:8px 0 0\"><\/p>\r\n    <p id=\"upPrice\" class=\"mute\" style=\"margin:6px 0 0\"><\/p>\r\n    <a id=\"upBtn\" class=\"btn\" href=\"#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Yes, show me<\/a>\r\n  <\/div>\r\n  <p class=\"mute\" style=\"margin-top:14px;font-size:16px\">It\u2019s completely optional. Many mothers find the guide plenty.<\/p>\r\n  <a class=\"skip\" href=\"#community\" id=\"skip\">No thanks, the guide is enough for me<\/a>\r\n<\/div><\/section>\r\n\r\n<section id=\"community\" hidden><div class=\"wrap\">\r\n  <h2>Join the sisters<\/h2>\r\n  <p>Join <span id=\"grpCount\">other mothers, aunties and guardians<\/span> in our private group. 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